Coming out publicly before getting married? I keep forgetting same-sex marriage in the US is now legal. And being SO HAPPY about being gay. Yeah. Being in the closet to survive robs us of our joix de vivre.
By Israel Gutierrez
I’ve been agonizing for months trying to figure out how to do this.
It’s been incredibly difficult, to the point where I usually talk myself in circles and end up making very little sense.
So I decided on this simple blog entry. No formalities, no restrictions, just me letting you into a portion of my life I’ve kept largely separate from my professional career.
I’m gay, which plenty of people, I’m sure, have either deduced or just guessed as much over the years.
But this isn’t me “coming out.” The truth is, I’ve been out to friends and family for more than six years.
The reason I’m tackling this now is, primarily, because I’m getting married on September 12. And besides the fact that it would be annoying to tell my story every time someone sees my wedding ring, it just seemed like a natural time to…
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Kids coming out at school and parents needing other adults for support. Education is such an important part of Social Justice. And the need children have for love and acceptance from family can’t be denied. Enjoy.
I’ve tried so hard to strike a balance in my parenting, attempting to ensure my child’s safety and privacy without instilling a sense of shame in her trans identity. And I think I’ve done pretty well. She has friends of all ages who are transgender and who are healthy and happy and successful. She even got to meet TV star Laverne Cox, and be told by that beautiful trans woman that “transgender is beautiful.” I think she believed Ms. Cox. I think she knows she’s beautiful. I think she even feels kind of proud to be trans, like she’s part of a special club.
But I still think I’ve missed the mark. I have been so focused on helping her maintain her privacy, on telling her, again and again, that only SHE gets to decide who “knows,” that I think I’ve…
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